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CIF Rules Regarding Boys Volleyball Uniform : Slunks NOT Allowed

Boys Volleyball Illegal Uniform Shorts Update: 2/27/24 - Slunks for the WIN! Slunks will have a CIF compliant option. As of February 17, 2024 Slunks are illegal to wear during the Boys High School Volleyball Season according to CIF. Who knew about this? I didn't. But now that I know, I want to know what your thoughts are. How do you all feel about this new rule? I feel bad for the high schools that have already purchased their 2024 uniforms that include Slunks shorts for their teams. According to a notice published on January 16, 2024 by the CIF Southern Section: There are several different styles of uniform shorts made by Slunks that are illegal to wear during the Boys Volleyball season starting February 17, 2024. Here is a link detailing the notice:  Boys Volleyball Illegal Uniform Shorts . We fall under the umbrella of the CIF Southern Section. This section has 556 schools. I couldn't find anything specifically for CIF San Diego - but according the the map, we are included. 
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